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The Psychological Marriage–and the Psychological Divorce

Dear Neil: I’m married, but I’m not in an intimate relationship, and I’m not happily married, either. We lead almost entirely separate lives, and we sleep in separate bedrooms. I am not at all confident that she loves me; she certainly doesn’t act like she likes or loves me. ...read more

Should People Remain Married Solely for the Sake of the Kids?

Dear Neil:  Your recent letter to “Tortured in Wyoming” has stuck in my mind in a disturbing way.  My main concern is that all the questions you asked him to consider seemed based around the central premise of what will make him happy.  For instance, you asked him if there was a ...read more